We are going to talk about destructive behaviors that you may be having in your relationship that are destroying not just your relationship with your spouse but all your relationships. It can be exacerbated during this holiday season that’s why we chose this topic because we are in this fourth quarter and people are still allowing themselves the opportunity to be a blessing to each other and relationships can get strained during the holidays.
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Relationships are one of the most important things in life. Spoiler alert: there is no one-size-fits-all to a successful relationship, however, there are some things that can help you develop and maintain the bond with your significant other. In this article, we delve into the 4 essential pieces to building a successful relationship.
Accept your significant other for who they are
One of the most essential pieces to developing a successful relationship is accepting your significant other for who they are. This means recognizing their strengths and seeing past their flaws. Everyone has some sort of flaw, whether it be an annoying habit or a more serious issue that can cause conflict in relationships. If you are able to accept your significant other for who they are, then this can help build a strong foundation that will allow the relationship to grow. Ask yourself: am I truly accepting my partner for who they are? How can I be more accepting?
Appreciate your partner and what they do for you
One of the best ways to show that you appreciate your partner is by showing them gratitude when they do something for you. Everyone wants to feel appreciated and loved, even if it’s just a simple “thank you” note in the morning before work! If you’re not sure how often or what exactly your significant other appreciates about you, ask them! This shows a deeper level of respect and love for your significant other. Ask yourself: do I truly appreciate what my partner does for me? How can I show more appreciation towards my partner?
Show affection towards one another
Showing affection towards your significant other can be done in many different ways. You can even go beyond physical expressions. Many people are very touchy-feely when it comes to their significant other and others may prefer something different and that’s okay too! This shows the different preferences of each individual in a relationship. The point is to find out what your partner enjoys and show affection towards them in that way! Ask yourself: how can I be more affectionate in a way that my partner likes to receive? What does my significant other like?
Create agreements on how to be together
Creating agreements with your significant other is important because it shows that you both are willing to work together. This way, if there ever comes a time where one partner breaks the agreement or violates it in some sort of way, then they can be called out on it and changes can be made. Create an agreement about something like how much affection should be shown, what does quality time looks like, and any other aspect of your relationship. Ask yourself: what are some things that I would like to see in my relationship? What does quality time look like for me and my partner? How can we create agreements on how to be together?
By accepting your significant other, showing gratitude towards them, expressing affection towards one another, and creating agreements about being together you will build a strong foundation to grow your relationship. Relationship experts Greg and Cheryl Clarke give the blueprint to a lasting and loving relationship in their highly acclaimed book “The Power of the Four A’s” and their powerful accompanying workbook. Get your copy today!
Today, we’re going to share a little bit about appreciation. How do we learn to appreciate each other when we don’t really know our partner.
There are times where there can be friction. You may know how to do something in a particular way and not appreciate the fact that your spouse does it in a different way and sometimes we could infer upon each other. Because i do it this way, then I’m expecting my partner to do it the same way and that doesn’t necessarily work. We have to be able to accept the fact that people do things in their own distinctive ways even as a couple and especially as an individual.
Never let yourself entertain the idea of being a TIME WASTER. One occurrence is that WE all have the same time frame within a day to be a PARTICIPANT in what those who are connected to US are moving in. Now we are not saying that you are doing their vocation and/or responsibilities BUT the interactions of someone who is invested in being apart of making someone else to feel RESPECTED is your responsibility at the least.
For the time that we are given to navigate this plane is extremely precious and not receiving the true value of this POTENTIAL becomes SHAMEFUL. You can start INSPECT your path when it comes to those individuals who are the time wasters in your overall neck of the woods. It could be a PARENT, SIBLING, CO-WORKER but the TWO VIBRATIONS that can be considered the WORSE of them all are your SPOUSE/PARTNER and…..YOURSELF! See if it is the LAST TWO then you are on a serious SLOPE that you may not be able to shift from.
If it is your SPOUSE then you must start to recognize how have they become this entity & did YOU have any bearing in their transformation in regards to INTERACTION and COMMUNICATION. If their actions are self generated then a NEWAGREEMENT must be established in order to get back some of the TIME that can be reclaimed going forward. Or if you are creating the areas where TIME is being wasted especially for your PARTNER/SPOUSE then you must check yourself on your influence into these areas where growth is not happening.
Now if it is YOU….then it becomes a self-directed manifestation that you will definitely NEED assistance in. WHY? Due to your movements, you are SELF-SABOTAGING your potential to be as GREAT AS YOU CAN BE! Through the inaction of the EFFORTS in reverse, the energy you are sharing is not producing QUALITY RESULTS which you can grow from. But there is a LESSON within if you can acknowledge it, this lesson is that the type of experiences in your PATH are stunted and being REGULAR is just what YOU WISH TO BE!
If you are in a relationship and you are playing games, KARMA has an interesting way of RE-GIFTING your actions and it might be served very cold. Be responsible that the person with whom you picked is someone you are willing to grow up with into the best POSSIBILITIES within that relationship. With INQUIRY and GUIDANCE, WE are here to SHIFT those conversations and to assist in SHINING a light to bring these areas into ORDER. The COACHING & MENTORING programs that we have created have helped countless people and YOU should be in that number as well to be the BEST that you can be TOGETHER.
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When you are creating a LIFE together, you are responsible to EACH OTHER to not WASTE TIME. If this apart of the overall commitment then the ENERGY that you BOTH are sharing will be FRUITFUL and applied accordingly!
CONTROL yourself by allowing those things you cannot control to be stepping stones of your WALK together. When you begin to SHAPE the circumstances for your collective benefit within your relationship then the vibration starts to move towards an new level of strength. By moving in this particular spirit, you are moving in an aspect of CREATION where the opportunities of growth becomes more apparent.
ALTER your thinking patterns when it comes to the purpose of your relationship and how it can be enhanced through coaching and communication. By knowing when to allow for things to SHIFT gives a sense of flexibility as you BOTH become aware of your actions, contributions and the MISSION that you should have for your overall commitment to each other. When you are willing for new things to OCCUR within the dynamics of your relationship then you are invoking new possibilities to be established.
DELETE the negative aspects that could be people, places, objects, even your own thoughts…eradicate those things that do not mean you any good for a prosperous union. When you are removing those items that can create BLOCKAGES in your relationship, it will be a process that can produce feelings that you may not like but you must CONFRONT them in order for those vibrations to not take hold again.
Where WE come in is that we co-create an atmosphere with YOU to develop your strengths and defenses so that the TYPE of experience that you wish to have in your relationship becomes a reality and ONE where you can recognize the necessary moves that can and will be made in order for PEACE & LOVE to flourish by working the taught principles. WEARE HERE for your SUCCESSFUL LIFE to be of continued forward process. Anyone who is successful in their lives has a COACH/MENTOR to assist in the overall path for guidance and insight.
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By being willing to CONTROL, ALTER & DELETE in our lives has created opportunities for new experiences! We would like to thank you for being apart of our community here; AS WE GROW SO SHALL YOU!
What you allow in your EARS can be just as important as what you put in your mouth. At times, we may that we are LISTENING to someone as they share with you BUT you could be only HEARING the words. When you are listening to the things being shared with you then you are actually PROCESSING and then you can make decisions upon what is being discussed and respond accordingly. When you are only hearing the words, there is no processing HAPPENING; it is as if the words are just FLEETING in the wind and they are not being CAPTURED.
The EAR allows for information to be shared through major parts of the body. It is a VITAL exercise when it comes to how you are using this ORGAN. It may seem minuscule in size but as an apparatus for gathering information; these two parts of your body can be at times even more important than your EYES. * * The ways we process information via our ears can influence so many actions in our overall lives. You can be in FIGHT or FLIGHT, POWER or SUBSERVIENCE, & INTELLIGENCE or IGNORANCE. These decisions that we can make is based upon the application or lack thereof of what is shared through an AUDITORY delivery.
Now WE can flow to the next step of this overall endeavor when it comes to the thoughts being conveyed to you. So the people in your circle who are FEEDING/SENDING information to you and yours will give a glimpse of where you are going. Are the thoughts UPLIFTING? EMPOWERING? BELITTLING? DESTRUCTIVE? These very items you can deduce based upon what you are LISTENING to and what you are just HEARING! If the words that you are encountering can bring you to another plateau then you should be intently in the LISTEN mode. Now if they are sharing things that can be considered an attempt to DRAG you down then you should HEAR them then THROW THEM AWAY!
This is where WE come into play, we are here to assist in SHEPHERDING the processes of your relationship and to see you to the next manifestation of what YOU CAN BE TOGETHER. If you have the right individuals as your COACHES/MENTORS then you will see an uptick in your activity to grow and become.
Take the time TODAY to get YOUR ACCESS to the 7 Ways to Make Money with Your Honey – The Course for only $179. WHY? Not only will this course help with your overall LISTENING but it gives you an opportunity to grow in your thoughts and conversations around MONEY and its varied uses. GET YOUR ACCESS TODAY! Blessings!
